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The Grief of Illusion: What Cardi B’s Situation Is Forcing Us to Confront
This piece is about the grief that comes when you realize the person you thought you wanted was never aligned with who you actually are or who you’re willing to become.
7 days ago6 min read


Why Slow Love Feels Hard in a Fast World
This is a blog post about slow love and why it's important to take your time in love.
Jan 37 min read


Starting Before You’re Ready: When Love Still Feels Unfinished
This is a blog post about starting a new relationship before feeling that you're totally ready.
Dec 28, 20255 min read


When God Gives You the Thing You Asked For… and You Panic Anyway
A raw, intimate reflection on what happens when you finally receive the love or blessing you asked for, but fear and old patterns make you want to run. This post explores self-sabotage, emotional growth, and how Neveah and Nasir in Fallen: Sons of God face the same crossroads. Tap in for truth, healing, and the start of their divine journey.
Dec 3, 20252 min read


The Boundary, the Book, and Why I’m Not Dating Right Now
There’s something about a woman saying “I’m not dating right now” that seems to make some men uncomfortable. Not because it’s rude. Not...
Aug 29, 20253 min read


Still Love Them? You Can still Let Go 💔
We tend to think love is the glue that keeps a relationship together. But sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is walk away. A lot...
Aug 1, 20256 min read


Let Go and Let God: What the Law of Detachment Really Teaches You (Especially During Mercury Retrograde)
I was watching this episode of the Know Thyself podcast—an interview with Sadhguru—and he said something that made me pause the video...
Jul 21, 20253 min read


When He’s Fine, God-Fearing, Six-Figures Deep… but Still Not It.
This is about when you finally start attracting the good ones—the evolved ones, the ones doing the work, the ones with therapy receipts and clean fingernails. The ones who pray before dinner. The ones who open doors, know how to talk about their emotions and handle business. The ones that, on paper, look like answered prayer.
But... there's one problem.
Just one.
And it’s not a small one.
Jul 11, 20254 min read


Why ‘Top Tier’ Doesn’t Mean Tall, Dark, and Loaded: What Black Women Really Want in a Man
We’ve all heard it by now—the guy who claims he’s “top tier” just because he’s over six feet, makes six figures, and has that boss-like...
Nov 8, 20244 min read
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