“Do you know that even until now, I still can’t get you off my mind?”
“I’ve always wanted to do this, even back when we first met.”
“It’s so hard to control myself around you.”
These are all of the right things a woman wants to hear. A man who can’t stop thinking about you, wanting you and desiring you. Yasss!
You make him wanna leave the one he’s with and start a new relationship.
Only problem is…
He’s your best friend’s husband.
Stop the madness!
(But, shhh…let’s entertain it for a while y’all).
The “so-called” best friend who puts you down all the time, humiliates you and makes you feel worthless.The “so-called” best friend who puts you down all the time, humiliates you and makes you feel worthless. | A Real Love by Porscha Sterling Click To Tweet
“Are you really getting that? You’re getting big ya know. Waiter, she’ll have the salad instead.”
“You’re never going to get married looking like you do now”.
My husband loves me because I keep it snatched. Get it together now!”
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The cutting remarks, “helpful” suggestions and subtle (or not-so-subtle) jabs have all taken their toll.
But, there are other reasons why women cheat with their best friend’s husband (hold on tight while we take a stroll down CRAZY-AS-ALL-GET-OUT lane):
- The husband is easily available
You don’t even have to try to get him. Whenever you’re over at the house he uses any excuse to touch you when she’s not looking. Why hunt for a man when there’s one right on your doorstep?You don’t even have to try to get him. Whenever you’re over at the house he uses any excuse to touch you when she’s not looking. Why hunt for a man when there’s one right on your doorstep? | A Real Love by Porscha Sterling Click To Tweet
- She doesn’t deserve him
You know for a fact that she’s cheated on him multiple times before. Paired with the fact that you can’t stand how she treats you anymore – why not help him cheat?
- You should never have given him away
You met him first and thought that he would be perfect for your bestie – not realising you still had feelings for him! You’re just taking what’s rightfully yours.
So, let’s shake the crazy out and common sense into women who think it’s okay to cheat with their best friend’s man (even if she is a nasty piece of work!):
How you get them is how you lose them
If you’re planning to keep your best friend’s husband (provided he even divorces her), what’s to stop him from doing the same thing to you?
You will never be a priority
He slides you in whenever it is convenient for him. More importantly, when he and your gal pal aren’t gettin’ it on. Are sloppy seconds that attractive?
Honor is the currency of elevation
That’s right – a lesson to be remembered from Pastor John Gray. Let it sink in. How are you honoring yourself in this ‘entanglement’ and where do you want to go in life?
So is it ever right to cheat with your best friend’s man?