“Blood is thicker than water.”
Well, so is cornbread and fried chicken.
Family isn’t about DNA. Plenty of us have blood relatives who we never see except at Thanksgiving (and that’s cos they came for our sweet potato pie – not us, boo!).
Some of us have parents who adore us and will do anything for us. We also have family members who get on our very last nerve…
…but then we can always get it together.
Importantly, there are others out there with parents who may have split up and started new families. You may not feel as much of a priority as your step-siblings.
Many of us may have abusive parents who make your life a living hell.
Or how about those of you who have never even met your parents?
There are aunts and uncles who don’t make an effort to get to know you. When they call it’s to compare their children’s achievements to yours.
“Ohhhh, my daughter got all A’s and your girl got a B in Math. Might want to check that sista”.
Family can take any shape or size. A single mom or dad, step-families, grandparents raising their grandkids, adoptive or foster parents, and every unique setup out there.
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There are so many conversations I start when I need some advice. But if the person I’m talking to makes it about them, I know ‘they ain’t family.’ Be surrounded by people who listen to you.
There will be times in your life when you need someone to step-up and be there for you. Get strong people on your team.
Ensure your relationship is a top priority for the other person. Okay, so sometimes they may have something going on but, they shouldn’t stand you up all of the time or be unreliable.
4. Spiritual Wellness
If you catch yourself avoiding conversations about the Holy Ghost, reconsider who can help you be the very best version of yourself.
Thank you, thank you, thank you. Your family should show they appreciate you and this should go both ways.
6. Time Together
Once or twice a year isn’t gonna cut it.
Make sure your family members are putting in the time to show up for you.
No matter what your family looks like, be proud of the family you have built and are an integral part of.No matter what your family looks like, be proud of the family you have built and are an integral part of. Click To Tweet
You matter, and you deserve to surrounded by people who 100% believe in that.
When you have family, you have everything. Do you agree? Do you have an ‘unconventional’ family? I wanna hear all about it in the comments below.