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Bad Boys Why We Want Em

Bad Boys – Why We Want ‘Em

Every girl wants a bad boy. Even bad boys can have hearts dipped in gold.

We know they’re no good for us. But we don’t care.

Bad Boys for life!

We love everything about them and their swag draws us in like a girl to a Fenty Beauty sale.

I’m not here to warn you to stay away.

I’m here to tell you to go for your bad boy. As quiet as it’s kept, some bad boys have their hearts dipped in gold.



Have you been following the Bad Boys Do It Better – In Love With An Outlaw series? Be sure to get your copy of Bad Boys Do It Better 5 – released Jan 17, 2018.


Let’s take a look at why we love Bad Boys, shall we?

1. Bad Boys Are Fine

Let’s keep it 100.

Bad boys are some fine-looking specimens.

Think tall, strong, handsome  (well, I am). They’re a triple threat. Meet the cast of bad boys (photos included!) in Bad Boys Do It Better 5 – In Love With An Outlaw.

But, don’t forget they may have a great personality. Most people view bad boys as dogs who don’t deserve the time of day. Some bad boys can be the perfect gentlemen, so don’t write them off.

2. Forbidden Fruit

We don’t want to follow in the footsteps of Eve exactly, but come on! The look-but-don’t-touch thing they have going on is definitely irresistible.

A word of caution would be to check how ‘forbidden’ they are.

25 to life for armed robbery isn’t cute.

3. Confidence Overload

Bad boys are completely unapologetic. They are bad all day every day, and they don’t care what other people think of them.

They drink, smoke, drive fast, they even walk in a way that makes you do a triple-take. You love that confidence – especially when it’s used to protect you.

You want your man to be confident and to feel like you have someone strong at your back. Remember dating that guy who wouldn’t do anything when his mama, grandma, sister, aunt, niece, cousin had something nasty to say to you.

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Ewww. We don’t want that, do we ladies?

4. The Excitement

Bad boys can show you a whole different perspective on life. The thrill of being with them can be exactly what you need to get out of the mundane everyday life you may be leading right now. Bad boys don’t care for the rules and like to live life to the fullest.

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5. Bad Boys Don’t Change

Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m all for finding your diamond in the rough who is sweet, caring, and all loving on you. However, chances are your bad boy has a past which may still be following him around. You have to decide if you can trust him completely and leave behind what happened in the past.

Some guys play the field all their lives. They won’t change for any woman. They’ll change for the right woman – naturally. Don’t go out and snag a bad boy thinking he will turn into a one-woman man because you are different. Your bad boy will reveal his true self to you if you are the one for him.

Be sure to check out my post on how to overcome relationship obstacles.

What do you think? Are you okay with dating a bad boy, or do you like your bad boys in books only?  Be sure to check out the Sneak Peek of Bad Boys Do It Better – In Love With An Outlaw 5.


  • Michelle says:

    I like a bad boy in books only. Once in a while I do like to look at them up close and personal. Some of them have the only swagger, but that’s asmoch far as I’ll go.

  • Nicole says:

    I love the strong silent type of bad boy…but when he speaks…it’s everything. Quick to think, slow to move but when he moves he’s about that action! May not even look like your typical bad boy. My favorite? A muscled tattooed tech genius.

  • April says:

    I have had a bad boy or two but they were nothing like the Out Laws. If I could find One like one of them ooo eee that would be all she wrote. I like how they can do what the do and still be so in love with their women and have no problem showing it

  • Charmaine says:

    I simply love reading about #BadBoys now. If I was 30 years younger, I would definitely be out there looking for an Outlaw, Legend, or Ty. You have some wonderful characters, and I really get into them. I also get to travel in my imagination, and this is a great escape from an everyday mundane life. I know we on some grown stuff, but I really miss an illustrated book. I keep wondering exactly what these guys look like. I love the 5/6 siblings (Murrys, D Boys). There are more bad boys to love!!! You are a great writer Porscha Sterling, so keep bringing them. I will repeat, I’m still waiting on that good thousand pager!!!

  • NiQuita says:

    I LOVE everything about a bad boy. You can’t go wrong as long as they love and respect you in return..

  • Linda Vasquez says:

    Bad boys don’t let you run over them. Rude but in a sexy way!!

  • Amilia says:

    Bad boys are the sexy, liars( cause they are gonna cheat on you) however they are going to fight hard to keep you from finding out because they don’t want to hurt you ? because believe it or not they love you. Extremely jealousy, don’t do as they do, cause they have ridiculous pride & can’t forgive. Now in bed under the sheets they bring out the freakish in you, that you never knew you had.. they demand respect.. But I love em anyway

  • Carolyn says:

    Too old for a bad boy but love reading about them. Makes me wish I was younger.?

  • Angel says:

    Bad boys when they love they love hard you want for nothing if you can get pass the cheating when they stop all that its on

  • Damitra Adams says:

    I want a bad boy who just don’t give a f**k what comes out of his mouth. Is confident but smart. Bow legged and smelling good. One who likes to get downright disrespectful in the bed. ? Tall, and on his Boss Ish! Knows how to clean it up when necessary. Outlaw type ish

  • Janelia says:

    Bad Boys I Love are rough take charge guy with a edgy, sexy body with some tattoos,smooth and sexy hair. I can go on

    • Porscha says:

      Go on! ? So you like a guy with tattoos. Do you like them here and there over his body? Or do you prefer the full-on sleeve type… taking up an entire limb or body part? ?

  • De'Andra says:

    Bad boys have that rugged undeniable swag that just oozes sex appeal

  • Barbara ward says:

    They tell it like it is what you see is what you get.

  • Jada says:

    Bad boys can get a little jealous especially when they think another man maybe occupying your time

  • Sharene Price says:

    Bad boys give it to you blood raw. They don’t believe in lying. They let it all out and let you decided if you want to deal with them. They don’t shit from no one. They protect what’s there’s. The kind at heart for the ones they love but rough on the outside to others. There attitude will irk your last nerve but yet love them all the same. You tend to want a good man but the presence of a bad boys draws you in. The sex supersede sex with anyone else. Bad boys just do it better.

    • Porscha says:

      I like how you put it:

      You tend to want a good man but the presence of a bad boys draws you in.

      Why do you think this is?

  • Umeki says:

    Well I love a bad boy in books only LOL

  • Saderia Green says:

    They Keep it 100 what you see is what you get..

  • Nitesha says:

    A bad boy can give you that sexy/nasty/freaky swag between them sheets. But you better be careful, because you must let that inner freak out.

    • Porscha says:

      Right?! ? Thanks for sharing! ❤️

    • Celestine Smith says:

      I love a bad boy, they are oh so sexy, but you have to be very careful about giving your all to a bad boy they I’ll take it and use it against you. When they do decide to give there hearts they give their all still a bad boy none the less. Their swag is unbelievable

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