Every girl wants a bad boy. Even bad boys can have hearts dipped in gold.
We know they’re no good for us. But we don’t care.
Bad Boys for life!
We love everything about them and their swag draws us in like a girl to a Fenty Beauty sale.
I’m not here to warn you to stay away.
I’m here to tell you to go for your bad boy. As quiet as it’s kept, some bad boys have their hearts dipped in gold.
Let’s take a look at why we love Bad Boys, shall we?
1. Bad Boys Are Fine
Let’s keep it 100.
Bad boys are some fine-looking specimens.
But, don’t forget they may have a great personality. Most people view bad boys as dogs who don’t deserve the time of day. Some bad boys can be the perfect gentlemen, so don’t write them off.
2. Forbidden Fruit
We don’t want to follow in the footsteps of Eve exactly, but come on! The look-but-don’t-touch thing they have going on is definitely irresistible.
A word of caution would be to check how ‘forbidden’ they are.
25 to life for armed robbery isn’t cute.
3. Confidence Overload
Bad boys are completely unapologetic. They are bad all day every day, and they don’t care what other people think of them.
They drink, smoke, drive fast, they even walk in a way that makes you do a triple-take. You love that confidence – especially when it’s used to protect you.
You want your man to be confident and to feel like you have someone strong at your back. Remember dating that guy who wouldn’t do anything when his mama, grandma, sister, aunt, niece, cousin had something nasty to say to you.You want your man to be confident and to feel like you have someone strong at your back. #badboys Click To Tweet
Ewww. We don’t want that, do we ladies?
4. The Excitement
Bad boys can show you a whole different perspective on life. The thrill of being with them can be exactly what you need to get out of the mundane everyday life you may be leading right now. Bad boys don’t care for the rules and like to live life to the fullest.Bad boys can show you a whole different perspective on life, they don’t care for the rules and like to live life to the fullest. #badboys Click To Tweet
5. Bad Boys Don’t Change
Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m all for finding your diamond in the rough who is sweet, caring, and all loving on you. However, chances are your bad boy has a past which may still be following him around. You have to decide if you can trust him completely and leave behind what happened in the past.
Some guys play the field all their lives. They won’t change for any woman. They’ll change for the right woman – naturally. Don’t go out and snag a bad boy thinking he will turn into a one-woman man because you are different. Your bad boy will reveal his true self to you if you are the one for him.
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What do you think? Are you okay with dating a bad boy, or do you like your bad boys in books only? Be sure to check out the Sneak Peek of Bad Boys Do It Better – In Love With An Outlaw 5.